The Obtainer - 11/18/22, Friday
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Friday, November 18th Edition
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We’re less than a week away from having to share dinner tables with people we may see only once a year. It’s a mixed bag of emotions and leftovers—we might as well look good while partaking, right?
- Leon Hedgepeth, Shopping Editor ⋯ @leonhedgepeth
What We’re Wearing
3 Fail-Safe Thanksgiving Outfits
Thanksgiving can be a little stressful. You are getting together with relatives that you may see once a year and having awkward conversations with new family members. There's often some travel, a few errands and maybe even some cooking involved. A lot goes on at holiday social gatherings but let's not lose sight—we all have a lot to be grateful for. Besides bringing an indulgent dish to the family function, you can also bring style to the dinner table.
I'm looking forward to doubling up on desserts and watching a lot of football with the family. Whether you're celebrating the holidays with friends, family or your future in-laws, we're here to make sure your outfits are tasteful even if the food and jokes are sometimes not. The key? Don't overthink it.
The Looks
Family & Friends Thanksgiving
Having dinner with your family is the best but oftentimes can be intrusive with questions from relatives that you only see sparingly. Dress semi-formal to let everyone know at the dinner table that this isn't your first rodeo, and you can banter with the best. Go for a smart casual look—hardy herringbone pants, an oxford button-down that allows you to roll up your sleeves to help clean dishes and a cardigan that's heavy enough to wear outside but comfy enough to wear while napping on the couch after the tryptophan kicks in.
The weekend cardigan, $198 by Taylor StitchHerringbone twill pant, $148 by Buck MasonPrimo belt, $85 by Alex CraneMill shirt, $135 by Alex MillDenali Chelsea boot, $475 by Allen Edmonds
Dinner With the Significant Other’s Parents
First off, don't load up on too much food when meeting the future LP's (life partner) parents. You want to look good, so eat light and stay on a swivel for those hard-to-answer questions. Go for an elevated yet soft tailored look. Start with an unstructured wool blazer and tuck a bandana into your chest pocket like a pocket square—you'll be meeting new people, so you need something to wipe the sweat away to hide that nervousness. Layer an understated crewneck sweater over an oxford button-down. Classic and comfortable enough to throw the football with your future brother-in-law or help bring in firewood.
Madison sport coat, $698 by Todd Snyder107 slim-fit selvedge denim jean, $255 by orSlowBroken-in oxford shirt, $79.50 / $54.50 by J.CrewCashmere crewneck, $199 by TricotOfficer G VGT shoe, $187 by KlemanFastcolor bandana, $39 by Kaptial
The Day After
After Thanksgiving you're probably gearing up to reheat leftovers for lunch, maybe play some touch football with friends or brave the shopping scene. Which means you need an outfit that is comfortable enough to sit at home on the couch but versatile enough to walk in the cold or wait in line for deals. A thick-down jacket has a utilitarian sensibility to it and keeps you warm. Pair it with a thermal, a crewneck for extra insulation and a pair of relaxed wool pants—the elastic waistband is a sartorial cheat code for the holidays.
Fyn down jacket, $635 by Norse ProjectsRat rock pant, $170 by General AdmissionCrew sweatshirt, $120 by KnickerbockerLong-sleeve thermal, $120 by One of These DaysLowcate sneaker, $115 by Nike ACGKing Jammy hat, $75 by Howlin'
Partner
Give Them Something They’ll Never Want to Take Off
When in doubt, a piece of jewelry is always a smart way to make an impact. Let them unwrap something timeless and luxurious. Born in Bali in 1975, John Hardy's line embodies the very best of contemporary jewelry. It's stylish, comfortable and luxurious—built to make an impression without standing out too much. Their line of classic chain pieces are as durable as they are stylish. There's a wide range of options, but you’ll never go wrong with the classics.
Crafted from sterling silver with nearly four carats worth of white pavé diamonds covering the bracelet.
$17,000 by John Hardy
The intricate chain style, as seen here in timeless sterling silver, has been a signature of the brand for more than four decades.
$675 by John Hardy
Make this necklace as subtle or as bold as you like. You can choose from a variety of gauges and lengths so it pairs perfectly with the recipient’s personal style.
From $675 by John Hardy
The sales and discounts our team is currently watching.
A pocket-sized, packable Theragun that allows you to treat your muscles after a workout, no matter the location. It's compact, but powerful.
$199 / $179by Therabody
This handsome tote bag is excellent to plop on top of your carry-on. Made up of a durable nylon exterior, the flat-bottom design has room for a 13" laptop, plus there are plenty of pockets.
$168 / $92by Flint and Tinder
Cut from a wool boxweave fabric, wear this on its own now and underneath a topcoat when the temps really drop. The modern zip style features double front pockets and secure, snap inner pockets.
$220 / $175by 3Sixteen
Christy Down vest custom made by Mr. Warehouse in "Weapon" fabric for Rocky Mountain. It's just a matter of time before it disappears.